- The PERFECTIVE STAGE is a stage all marriage should get, when man and woman become one person. But many are in the progressive stage till forever. Some are at PERFOMATIVE STAGE (engagement period).
- After a marriage, we have a relationship between four persons – male lover – a female lover – leader (husband of the wife) and the lover.
For a woman to enjoy her marriage, she must identify the leader out of the lover after marriage. The husband is the leader of the home. Ladies don’t only know the lover as you did when dating. When both came together to verify one, the care existing you were dating will change because the house needs a leader.
Marriage is getting worse year after years. a perfect home can only result from two perfect homes. It’s not possible for us to have two perfect homes.
Perfect home is one in which both party play their role perfectly, and that which the perfective stage is reached in union before children are born in it. The man must know all his roles (provider, protector, judge, leader, prest, administrator), and the woman must also know her roles. How many marriages are from perfect homes? Can you point out one?
The problem for not coming from perfect home multiplies till forever. Our great parents were not perfect that generated to us.
We need to minimise the intransition from the home we are coming from together before bringing in children that can inherit that imperfections. Otherwise, our children heirs our imperfections both from the man and the woman multiplies together. Just imagine the higher level of the imperfections that’s growing.
The imperfections can’t be cancelled but can be reduced by both after acceptance to be together. Children learn from what they see by observation, this formed them.
When you marry a woman coming from a broken home, the picture from her house is programmed in her subconscious. No matter what the man will do to please her will not succeed.
Let see Genesis 5:1,3
Genesis 5:1 This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him;
The verse 3
Adam lived a hundred and thirty years, and begat a son in his own likeness, after his image; and called his name Seth:
Our children are likness us, and all marriages need to block the imperfections reducing, minimising the failure. Homes build societies. Everything we have in our society is built from home. It is a minor of our nuclear family.
Adam is the origin of a woman, if we want to solve the problem of marriages, we must begin differentiate between a male and female and must to train our boys to the future house leader, separate the training not to spend the same time with both boys and girls together. Man was made differently from a woman. Genesis 2 and Genesis 5:1-2
Genesis 5:1-2 This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him;
Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they ………
We need to study the Word of to strengthen our home, men, and brethren.
God Adam, in His likeness, gives us the power to be reproductive and create our own family in our likeness (our own kind). The original word for mam is Adam, the male is the thinking pattern of the female, the female is 100% feeler, the perfect home must put both to all thinking and feeling ajusted at 50/50 to grow similarly between them.
Every family has an assessment
Every home must reproduce male Adam and female Adam
Male Adam is the leader, female Adam submissive leader, the society fail when this two are not respected and follow. God model this scheme, which must be a model design for every family.
The father has to model leadership, and the mother needs to model followership. This brings up the society. Unity is not people hugging each other but the perfect modelling of leadership and followership. Psalms 133:1,3
Every man created by God has an automated dominion in him, perfection the origine of blessings, anywhere there’s unity there’s blessings. If the leadership and followership are properly modelled, there must be a prosperous and perfect society. Husband and wife will have differences, but let not continue to continue, this build the home, but there must be unity to attract all blessings of God. Our nations will be blessed if this model can be implemented.
Source: Prop. Isaiah Wealth teaching(Gospel Pillars Int’l ministries)