I’m Pregnant, I Slept With My Sugar Daddy and A Pastor Same Day But…
A lady in her mid-twenties who is dating a young university graduate has confided in us that she is pregnant, but there are complications.
She fears the boyfriend is not responsible because she had protected s3x with her boyfriend on several occasions.
The disturbing twist in her rather complicated sad story is that a little over a month ago, she had unprotected s3x with her Sugar Daddy and then a pastor on the same day. She revealed that she slept with the sugar daddy at his residence in the morning and at a big hotel in Accra just before the lockdown in the evening within 24 hours.
She is scared she will lose her man and plans to hide it from him until she is able to seduce him into an unprotected affair.
The three men do not know each other however, she has separately informed both the sugar daddy and the pastor of the pregnancy. The sugar daddy is cool with it if she will keep the pregnancy and deliver, but that will mean she will lose the man so dear to her heart. She can not marry the old man and knows her dad and mom will never accept such a marriage.
The pastor is so much concerned about his reputation but is burnt on ensuring the baby is aborted. The lady who we prefer to call Dede is emotionally unstable now. The pastor has promised to buy her a new car and beef up her bank account if she will abort the child. Dede is even more confused because since she broke the news to the sugar daddy, he has been calling her nearly every hour in the last 48 hours. The pregnancy test from two private clinics proved positive.
Dede has decided to go ahead with her plan to make the boyfriend responsible for the pregnancy and knows the lad trusts her so much and believes he is the only man she is going out with.
It’s only a woman who indeed knows the father of her child but, Dede does not know which of the three men is the true owner of the fetus she is carrying.
Dede is not ready to discuss this with anyone, not even her friends. She believes ideas from readers will help hide her identity whiles getting some good suggestions from the general public.
Help Dede…what should she do?
Sorry for your situation, I think what you need to do is to spare yourself from further trauma and concentrate on how to fix this problem once and for all. I’m of the view that you can take care of this situation and leave the rest to God after all we all err as humans and therefore although it’s not a good way to go, once it happens you need not worry your head over this. However, given the chance to advise you in this difficult situation, I suggest you keep the pregnancy as suggested by your sugar daddy and deliver a baby for him when the time is due since you’re convinced that he’s the one behind. Just come out and explain to your boyfriend all that happened including your parents. If possible go down on your knees and beg them for forgiveness. I believe once there’s love, he get to forgive you and stick by your side. Same way I guess your parents will do if you heed advice, after all your parents will not disown your for anything since you’re their loved one too. As for the so-called pastor, who is only concerned about protecting his reputation not your well-being, don’t even mind him at all. I don’t see how someone who call himself a man of God for that matter a role model will stood so low to give such an advice to you in this crucial moment to take life which goes contrary to God’s commandments. Hmmm, so sad to say, these are charlatans in white garments parading themselves as God’s servants. This is a big lesson for you and others. I believe after this, you will never make such a mistake in your entire life again. Also try hard to advise other young ladies not to repeat your mistake but to stick to one partner (love of their life) only to stay out of trouble. It is my prayer that God sees you through as you embark on these measures to stay out of trouble. My humble advice.
Good luck!!!
Just take the pastors money and the car and stop meeting with him.
Since you are not sure of the man responsible for the pregnancy, Stay away from all of them and disclose the issue to your parents.
Get closer to your God, and let life go on.
Your true repentance will get you favour from God.
Stay calm, jesus cares.